Mizpah Matters Newsletter
Pastor Betty Jo Sims
August 2008

“Month of Sundays” Challenge

We miss all those of our church family who are not with us on a regular basis.  We have a special place in our hearts for those members who do not attend at all.  Therefore, we are issuing a challenge to you and to all our constituents.  There are 22 Sundays between August 1 and December 31.  We challenge you to pick four of these Sundays to spend one hour with us in worship from 9:00 to 10:00 am, to 10:30 am if you stay for refreshments and fellowship.  You will see old friends, meet some new folks, sing a bit, and hear the scripture read and proclaimed.  We hope you might find that “something” that has been missing in your life as we renew our fellowship with you.Who is willing to take the challenge?

Duke Classes

Betty Jo will be at Duke for class Sept. 12-13,  19-20, and 26-27.  She will be available by cell phone should you have a pastoral need or you may leave her a message on her home phone.

Thoughts from the Pastor

The death of L.W. Reynolds, Jr. prompted this writing.  It may be difficult to read, but I encourage you to read it in its entirety.  Get the facts.  Share this        information with those you love.  Please !!!! Suicide is the deliberate taking of one’s own life.  The causes of suicide are difficult to establish. The problem has been approached from two different angles: the sociological, which stresses social pressures and the importance of social integration, and the psychoanalytic, which centers on the driving force of guilt and anxiety and the inverting of aggressive impulses.  Recent studies have done much to dispel some of the myths surrounding suicide.  Certain old religious beliefs, such as suicide bans the person from going to heaven, are outdated and not scriptural.  Suicide is often the product of  depression.  These persons often wear masks and hide their depression from those who could best help them to deal with their problems - their family and friends.   This year in King & Queen County, we have already had four suicides and three more attempts.  Suicide knows no age barrier—it affects young and old alike.  There is help!!  Suicide is not chosen; it happens when pain exceeds the resources for coping with pain.  A person can survive only if they find a way to reduce the pain or find a way to increase their coping resources.  There are trained professionals to help, as well as persons on the other end of  hotlines who have been in similar situations. 

Save these phone numbers:   
National suicide Hotline  1-800-SUICIDE  1-800-273-TALK  National Teen Suicide Hotline 1-800-999-9999

Va. Website   http://suicidehotlines.com/virginia.html   
There are many other websites with information  like this one —  http://www.metanoia.org/suicide/          

Talk with your family members and friends, especially our young people. Make a phone call ...  get help.

Be at Peace,   Betty Jo                                               

Builder’s Club Challenge

Our District Superintendent, Rev. Mark V. Ogren, has issued a challenge to each church on our district to become actively involved in our Ashland District Builder’s Club.  The Builder’s Club is an opportunity for us to invest in churches across the district as we reach out to new people with the Good News of God’s love in Jesus.  We commit to a three-year period to respond to a maximum asking of three calls per year for funds.  You can pledge $1, $2, $5, $10 or more.  It is a simple way to be involved in the  mission and passion of our churches to reach out to others.  All pastors on the district have been challenged to join and I have sent in my pledge.  All churches on the district have been challenged to have at least two persons sign up for the Builder’s Club.  Please help us meet our goal.  You are challenged to take a step of faith and commit to this effort together.  Betty Jo needs to know that you have joined, but not the amount you pledge.   Brochures with details of the   program are in the vestibule.  We hope you will join us in this effort and accept Mark’s challenge.  We will report on this challenge at our Charge Conference in October so sign up today.

Church Picnic

Can you sing “Shall We Gather at the River?”  The answer to that question is “Yes, We Shall.”

The church will hold a Summer Fellowship Picnic at Pinky, Peggy and Shawn Smith’s place on the river on  Sat., Aug. 23, beginning at 5:00 pm.  Chicken, drinks, paper products and utensils will be provided.  You bring the side dishes and desserts and  a lawn chair.  We plan to eat at 6:00 pm. And do a lot of visiting.   

Dedication of our New Ramp

We plan to dedicate our new handicapped access ramp on Sat., Sept. 20 at 5:00 pm with a music concert.  We are working to have two music groups play and sing outside, weather permitting.   The community is invited to join us.  Bring a picnic and a    blanket or your lawn chairs and your family, friends, and neighbors.  We will cook hot dogs and have drinks and the trimmings if you do not wish to bring your own supper.

Coming Events

  • Saturday, Aug. 23 Church Picnic at the Smith’s river cottage 5:00 pm

  • Sunday, Aug. 24 Administrative Board meeting after church

  • Monday, Sept. 1 Labor Day Holiday

  • Saturday, Sept. 20 Community Picnic and Music concert at  Mizpah UMC with ramp dedication 5:00 pm

Future Events

  • Wednesday Oct 29 Charge Conference   7:00 pm

  • Saturday Nov 29 Roast Beef Dinner And Auction Sat., Nov. 29

  • Saturday Dec 6 Holiday Church Tour 10:00 am to 2:00 pm